https://yourconsilium.com/blog/ Essays on hard decisions, drawn from the thinkers in the Consilium roster. en Sun, 05 Jul 2026 16:46:05 GMT https://yourconsilium.com/blog/identity/am-i-living-someone-elses-life https://yourconsilium.com/blog/identity/am-i-living-someone-elses-life Three thinkers disagree about what it means to live a borrowed life. Jung says excavate the mask. Baldwin says face what was assigned. Kierkegaard says stop stalling and leap. Sun, 05 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT Identity Carl Jung James Baldwin Soren Kierkegaard Authenticity Self-Discovery Purpose https://yourconsilium.com/blog/relationships/how-do-you-know-when-a-relationship-is-over https://yourconsilium.com/blog/relationships/how-do-you-know-when-a-relationship-is-over Three thinkers disagree about when to leave. Esther Perel asks what died. Rumi says you already know. Simone de Beauvoir says stop pretending you have no choice. Sun, 05 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT Relationships Esther Perel Rumi Simone de Beauvoir Letting Go Courage Change