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Love

Essays on love, explored through the Consilium lens.


July 2026 · Relationships

Can You Love Someone and Still Be Yourself?

Erich Fromm · Virginia Woolf · Rainer Maria Rilke

Three thinkers on losing yourself in love. Erich Fromm says love should not cost you. Virginia Woolf says protect the room of your own. Rilke says let the distance stay.

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