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Leo Tolstoy, The novelist who reached the summit of fame and wealth, found it hollow, and spent his last decades asking, gets quoted everywhere and sourced almost nowhere. The 15 quotes below are different: each one is checked word for word against the cited work, starting with War and Peace, not copied from aggregator sites that pass misattributions along. The source is named under every line, so you can trace each quote back to the page it came from.
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On why your family's dysfunction feels unique:
Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina
Deciding whether to trust a season that mixes joy and hardship instead of waiting for one without shadow:
All the variety, all the charm, all the beauty of life is made up of light and shadow.Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina
Deciding whether you have accepted a loss or simply gotten used to it:
There are no conditions of life to which a man cannot get accustomed, especially if he sees them accepted by everyone about him.Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina
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On waiting out a grief that will not be rushed:
The two most powerful warriors are patience and time.Leo Tolstoy, War and Peace
On understanding someone through love rather than logic:
All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love.Leo Tolstoy, War and Peace
On whether ambition without honesty is worth it:
There is no greatness where there is not simplicity, goodness, and truth.Leo Tolstoy, War and Peace
Deciding how to act when certainty about the right choice will never come:
We can know only that we know nothing, and that is the highest degree of human wisdom.Leo Tolstoy, War and Peace
Choosing to keep going after a loss that felt like the end of everything:
As long as there is life, there is happiness. There is a great deal, a great deal before us.Leo Tolstoy, War and Peace
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On performative generosity versus real change:
I sit on a man's back, choking him and making him carry me, and yet assure myself and others that I am sorry for him and wish to lighten his load by all means possible, except by getting off his back.Leo Tolstoy, What Then Must We Do?
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On facing a life you realize was not truly lived:
Ivan Ilyich's life had been most simple and most ordinary and therefore most terrible.Leo Tolstoy, The Death of Ivan Ilyich
On the moment mortality becomes real:
It is impossible that I should die. It would be too terrible.Leo Tolstoy, The Death of Ivan Ilyich
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On a crisis that upends everything you believed:
I felt that something had broken within me on which my life had always rested, that I had nothing left to hold on to, and that morally my life had stopped.Leo Tolstoy, A Confession
Rebuilding a sense of purpose after the beliefs you lived by stopped holding:
I felt that what I had been standing on had collapsed and that I had nothing left under my feet. What I had lived on no longer existed, and there was nothing left.Leo Tolstoy, A Confession
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On going along with something you know is wrong:
Wrong does not cease to be wrong because the majority share in it.Leo Tolstoy, A Letter to a Hindu
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Weighing a life built around self-interest against one built around others:
I have learnt that every man lives, not through care of himself, but by love.Leo Tolstoy, What Men Live By