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Melanie Klein

2 essays where Melanie Klein sits on the council. Melanie weighs in on guilt, repair, self-care. Read what Melanie would tell you.

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Relationships

What Do You Do When You've Hurt Someone You Love?

Three thinkers on guilt and repair. Rogers says the apology is not the repair. Dostoevsky knows the underground of your own justifications. Klein says the impulse to repair is already love.

Carl RogersFyodor DostoevskyMelanie Kleinguiltrepair

Relationships

When Should You Put Yourself First in a Relationship?

Three thinkers on selfishness in love. Adler says connection is the point. Klein says guilt is the clue. Le Guin says the self is not a thing you sacrifice.

Alfred AdlerMelanie KleinUrsula K. Le GuinSelf-CareBoundaries

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